Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Dreams

I flipped through the stapled stacks of papers, slowly at first, then faster and faster. A grin grew on my face as I saw numerous top-notch scores circled atop various people's exams. The final exam had been rather easy, after all. I saw my name at the top of the page, and pulled out my exam. My good mood disappeared and my face fell as I saw the large "D-" circled in red smack dab in the middle, and I felt helpless.

Have you ever had a dream like this before? I've had variations on this almost all my life... the real thing a few times, too, in a few EE classes at Cal (I wasn't cut out to handle circuits at all). I've also had recurring dreams of being chased by guys with guns, and sometimes by raptors. Check out the HowStuffWorks article on dreams for some additional info on common types of dreams and their interpretations, such as:

Being naked in public - had this
Most of us have had the dream at some point that we're at school, work or some social event, and we suddenly realize we forgot to put on clothes! Experts say this means:

o We're trying to hide something (and without clothes we have a hard time doing that).
o We're not prepared for something, like a presentation or test (and now everyone is going to know -- we're exposed!).

If we're naked but no one notices, then the interpretation is that whatever we're afraid of is unfounded. If we don't care that we're naked, the interpretation is that we're comfortable with who we are.

Falling - had this
You're falling, falling, falling... and then you wake up. This is a very common dream and is said to symbolize insecurities and anxiety. Something in your life is essentially out of control and there is nothing you can do to stop it. Another interpretation is that you have a sense of failure about something. Maybe you're not doing well in school or at work and are afraid you're going to be fired or expelled. Again, you feel that you can't control the situation.

Being chased - yup, this too
The ever-popular chase dream can be extremely frightening. What it usually symbolizes is that you're running away from your problems. What that problem is depends on who is chasing you. It may be a problem at work, or it may be something about yourself that you know is destructive. For example, you may be drinking too much, and your dream may be telling you that your drinking is becoming a real problem.

Taking an exam (or forgetting that you have one) - dreamed this one most recently
This is another very common dream. You suddenly realize you are supposed to be taking an exam at that very moment. You might be running through the hallways and can't find the classroom. This type of dream can have several variations that have similar meanings. (Maybe your pen won't write, so you can't finish writing your answers.) What experts say this may mean is that you're being scrutinized about something or feel you're being tested -- maybe you're facing a challenge you don't think you're up to. You don't feel prepared or able to hold up to the scrutiny. It may also mean there is something you've neglected that you know needs your attention.

Flying - not so much
Many flying dreams are the result of lucid dreaming. Not all flying dreams are, however. Typically, dreaming that you are flying means you are on top of things. You are in control of the things that matter to you. Or, maybe you've just gained a new perspective on things. It may also mean you are strong willed and feel like no one and nothing can defeat you. If you are having problems maintaining your flight, someone or something may be standing in the way of you having control. If you are afraid while flying, you may have challenges that you don't feel up to.

Running, but going nowhere - rarely, but sounds familiar
This theme can also be part of the chasing dream. You're trying to run, but either your legs won't move or you simply aren't going anywhere -- as if you were on a treadmill. According to some, this dream means you have too much on your plate. You're trying to do too many things at once and can't catch up or ever get ahead.

Your teeth falling out - nope, don't think I had this one
Many people have dreams that they lose all of their teeth. In this dream, they may feel something strange in their mouth and then spit teeth into their hand, eventually losing all of their teeth. According to some, our teeth are related to our sense of power and our ability to communicate. Losing our teeth not only makes us embarrassed by our appearance, which hinders our communications, but it also lessens our power because we may not speak our minds. It's also associated with feelings about our appearance.

In addition, I think I've had some "premonition dreams" where I dreamed something completely mundane, like a conversation among friends, but then at some point in the future it actually happens. Like, I'll be in a group discussion, and all of a sudden I'll get a sense of deja vu, and just know who is going to be the next person to talk and what they're gonna say. Unfortunately, it's always been about boring stuff.

I've also had my share of "hero dreams", like infiltrating the hotel in the original Die Hard movie to save hostages. Unfortunately, most of my hero dreams end with me dying... maybe I have some kind of martyr complex.

5 comments:

Joseph said...

My sister and I have deja vu dreams. It was more frequent when we were young. Just like you said, I know exactly what is going to happen or who is going to say what right before they say it.

When I was describing this to my sister, we came up wit the name "clips" signifying short movie clips. Most of the time, in addition to knowing what will happen, we have no choice but to continue along the same route. There are times when I am able to do something or say something differently, and then the deja vu sensation ends. It's strange.

Anonymous said...

i've never had any flying dreams... does that mean i'm not on top of things and in control of life? or, i'm not gaining any new perspective on things? how sad... haha

i never remember my dreams though or i don't dream at all... i wonder what that means :)

Anonymous said...

it means you're not getting enough sleep chris! :)

Anonymous said...

i've had all of those except the teeth falling out one. one of my coworkers said any time she has that dream, something bad happens to a relative or friend. if she spits out a tooth with blood, someone has died. coincidence perhaps, but she's had multiple examples of both.

Agueda said...

Hi Bob!
How have you been? About your dream... as one friend said, "D" is for "degree." I think your dream means that you're right on top of things :)